Professional Help
Find Professionals Specialised in Narcissists and Narcissism
Engaging professionals who have specific expertise in narcissism and narcissists is critical for ensuring that our dealings with a narcissist or emotional abuser are as efficient, painless and effective as possible.
Narcissists fight to ensure that their victims have no money, sense of identity, sense of self-worth, confidence or life. They are ruthless in their pursuits, often applying a ‘scorched earth’ policy to leave their ex-partner with nothing. All without care, conscience or feeling.
Professionals who are unaware of the true nature of narcissists will treat them like normal people and end up being manipulated, wooed and inadvertently, endorsing the narcissist’s actions.
The following professionals have proven expertise in narcissists and in dealing with their games and attempted deceptions appropriately and efficiently.
This page will continue to be updated as new information becomes available.
LEGAL (Solicitors and Barristers)
KGW Family Law
Morris House
34 Commercial Way
Woking
Surrey
GU21 6EN
Tel: 01483 375788
Web: https://kgwfamilylaw.com
Gregorian Emerson Family Law Solicitors
19 Railton Road
Guildford
Surrey
GU2 9LX
Tel: 01483 826470
Web: https://www.gelaw.co.uk/
Email: [email protected]
Harrogate Family Law
Clarendon House
9 Victoria Avenue
Harrogate
HG1 1JD
Tel: 01423 594680
Web: https://harrogatefamilylaw.co.uk
Email: [email protected]
Winston Solicitors
112 Street Lane
Leeds
LS8 2AL
Tel: 0113 320 5000
Web: https://www.winstonsolicitors.co.uk/
Email: [email protected]
PSYCHOLOGICAL (Counselling, Psychotherapy and Psychology)
There are excellent resources, provided by professionals, online, that will help you to understand narcissists and narcissism. They will also help you to understand what type of professional help is best for you. Here are some that we trust.
Dr Ramani Durvasula
Dr Ramani is a clinical psychologist, recognised worldwide for her expertise in narcissism and high conflict abuse.
Her YouTube Channel is packed with videos that enlighten, inform and motivate.
Web: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani
Her website is a hub of information, containing links to many of her best known work (videos, books and articles) for those dealing with a narcissist in their life.
Dr Les Carter
Dr Carter is a clinical psychologist with recognised expertise in narcissism and narcissistic abuse.
His YouTube Channel, Surviving Narcissism, offers tutorials on living with a narcissist, speaking directly to those who want to stay healthy whilst contending with the narcissist's toxicity.
Web: https://www.youtube.com/@SurvivingNarcissism
His website contains links to his videos, books and courses about how to remain healthy in the face of narcissism and recover.
Rebecca Zung
Rebecca Zung is a US-based lawyer with a special interest in high conflict negotiation and narcissistic divorce. She deals with narcissists in her job and has also experienced them in her personal life.
Rebecca’s YouTube Channel provides helpful and enlightening advice on narcissists, how they act and how to get what you want from them.
Web: https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq
Her website contains many resources, paid and free, including links to her top videos and her books.
SUPPORT ORGANISATIONS (Specialist Agencies and Charities)
Helping Survivors
Helping Survivors is an organisation designed to help individuals who have experienced sexual assault and abuse. The resources we provide are intended for individuals who have experienced sexual assault or abuse who are seeking support or for those who are seeking to learn about how to best help survivors of sexual violence.
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Refuge: For Women and children. Against domestic violence
First point of contact for victims of domestic violence and abuse. Helpful information for supporters. Includes a ‘Quick Exit’ tab to reduce detection. Supports men.
Web: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/
Tel: 0808 2000 247
Women’s Aid
Resources to help women and young people. The Survivor’s Handbook provides information on legal issues, housing, creating a safety plan and advice for people with special housing needs (available in 11 languages and in audio). Also support children and teenagers living in a home affected by domestic violence, or in violent relationships themselves.
Web: http://www.womensaid.org.uk/
Email: [email protected]
Direct links for contact on web home page.
Rights of Women
Confidential legal advice on domestic and sexual violence. Comprehensive website offering a wide range of help and specific contacts depending on need. A ‘Cover Your Tracks’ facility prevents abusive partners discovering online activity.
Web: https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/
Email: [email protected]
Southall Black Sisters
Advice for Asian and African-Caribbean women with issues including domestic abuse, forced marriage, immigration and homelessness.
Web: https://southallblacksisters.org.uk/
Tel: 020 8571 9595
Respect: Men’s advice line
Increasing safety of men and children experiencing domestic abuse. Confidential support. Helpline available.
Web: https://mensadviceline.org.uk/
Tel: 0808 8010327
ManKind Initiative
Helps men escape domestic abuse. Confidential helpline for male victims of domestic abuse and violence across the UK. Also accept calls from victims’ friends, family, neighbours, work colleagues and employers.
Web: https://www.mankind.org.uk/
Tel: 01823 334244
SurvivorsUK
Helpline for male victims of rape or sexual abuse. Provide counselling and support groups for those living in the London area. Can also recommend other services for those living outside London.
Web: https://www.survivorsuk.org/
Tel: 0203 598 3898
Email: [email protected]
Everyman Project
Support for all survivors of domestic abuse. Counselling to help men in the London area change their violent or abusive behaviour. National helpline offering advice to those worried about their own, or someone else’s, violent or abusive behaviour.
Web: https://www.everymanproject.co.uk
Enquiries: 0203 642 8850
Specific telephone and email contact details supplied on website.
Rape Crisis (England and Wales)
Umbrella organisation for Rape Crisis Centres across England and Wales. Website contains national helpline number, details of centres and information about rape and sexual violence for survivors, friends, family, students and professionals. ‘Rapid Exit’ tab on page reduces detection by abusers.
Web: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-help/
Tel: 0808 802 9999
Email: [email protected]
Honour Network Helpline (Karma Nirvana)
National helpline run by Karma Nirvana, a national charity advising victims and survivors of forced marriage and honour-based abuse.
Web: https://karmanirvana.org.uk/
Tel: 0800 5999 247
Hourglass: Action on elder abuse
Confidential advice and information for older victims of violence or abuse. Can also be contacted by relatives or friends of the abused person. Helpline available for older people who are living at home, in care homes or in hospital. Offices for England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland. See web page for details.
Web: https://wearehourglass.org/
Tel: 0808 808 8141
Text: 078 6005 2906
National Stalking Helpline
Part of the Suzy Lamplugh Trust. Provides advice dealing with all types of stalking, including how to report behaviour to the police and what to expect.
Web: http://www.stalkinghelpline.org
Tel: 0808 802 0300
Respect Phoneline
Information and advice for partners, friends and family who want to stop someone’s violent behaviour.
Web: http://www.respectphoneline.org.uk
Tel: 0808 802 4040
Centrepoint: young people
Give homeless young people a future. Provide housing and support for young people regionally in London, Manchester, Yorkshire and the North East. Linked to partner organisations across the UK.
Web: https://centrepoint.org.uk/
Tel: 0800 587 5158
Email: [email protected]
National LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline
Galop provides support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender victims of domestic violence.
Web: https://www.galop.org.uk/domesticabuse/
Tel: 0800 999 5428
Email: [email protected]
SignHealth: Domestic abuse help for Deaf people
Provides specialist domestic abuse services to help Deaf people find safety and security. Contact details on website.
Web: https://www.signhealth.org.uk/with-deaf-people/domestic-abuse/
Tel: 020 3947 2600
Text: 07800 003421
Email: [email protected]